Rebecca Li’s Dharma Talk 2/13/2017

We were delighted to have Rebecca Li back to the Yardley Friends Meetinghouse this past Monday, February 13th.

The Audio of the dharma talk is available below:

One reason we attend Dharma talks is to learn about Buddhism. Part of the learning is reinforcing concepts we’ve been introduced to and building on that understanding. Often times it’s reminding us of a simple, yet powerful topic. If the causes and conditions are there, such as your own focus and awareness coupled with a wonderful teacher like Rebecca, then good experiences prevail.

Leading up to Monday’s talk, I’d been caught up in the cyclic trials and tribulations of life. Rebecca’s simple and direct speaking style immediately pulled me in. Her academic background is apparent and it was great to see her in action as she took the topic at hand–the need for the proper causes and conditions to be in place in order to have a desired outcome–and rather than allow the conditions of the moment (dim lighting) upset her she turned it on its head and used it as a teaching opportunity.

The topic of Rebecca’s talk was Interdependence: Embracing Life’s Ups and Downs with Equanimity. Listen to the audio recordings above for an outstanding dharma lesson.

About Rebecca Li, PhD
Rebecca Li is a Dharma and meditation instructor teaching at the Chan Meditation Center(CMC). Rebecca leads Chan practice at Rutgers University and the New Jersey chapter of DDMBA and teaches on behalf of Dharma Drum in various community activities in the NJ-NY area. Rebecca is a board member of the Dharma Drum Retreat Center and professor of sociology at The College of New Jersey.

The Chan Meditation Center: http://www.chancenter.org/
The Dharma Drum Retreat Center: http://www.dharmadrumretreat.org/
See Rebecca’s talk about why we meditate here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZrcxVnufyw
Visit Rebecca’s web site: http://www.rebeccali.org
Hear her recording from last visit: /2016/08/28/visiting-teacher-september-19th-rebecca-li-phd/

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Upcoming Events March and April 2017

Dr. Dan Gottlieb: Cultivating Compassion in a World that seems Inhumane

Sunday, March 12th at 11:30AM
Yardley Friends Meeting, 65 N. Main St., Yardley, PA 19067

Yardley Friends Meeting will host a conversation with Dr. Dan Gottlieb who is a practicing psychologist and therapist, and a familiar voice as the host of the radio program “Voices in the Family” on WHYY.

Free event. Space is limited. We encourage you to call or email early to reserve a spot. For more information and to register: [click for more information]


A PMC Weekend Retreat Friday

Saturday- Sunday March 24, 25, 26, 2017

Cultivating a Wise Heart Led by Annie Nugent
To be held at Saint Raphaela Center 616 Coopertown Road Haverford, Pennsylvania
[ click for more details and to register for weekend retreat ]

Annie Nugent has practiced since 1979 and was an IMS Resident Teacher, 1999-2003. Her teaching style aims to reveal how all aspects of our lives can help us come to a clear and direct understanding of the Truth. [ click to hear Annie’s previous dharma talks ]


Three-day Retreat with Rebecca Li in Pine Bush, NY

March 31 (Fri, 6 pm) to April 2 (Sun, 5 pm)  Foundation Retreat—three days of practicing Chan meditation in stillness and motion, with instructions on sitting, moving, walking and eating meditation, important Dharma concepts to support one’s practice, as well as private personal interviews to discuss difficulties in and questions about one’s practice.  $190 (scholarships available; no prior retreat experience needed)

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Five-day Residential Retreat with Anam Thubten in Newton, NJ

Tuesday, April 4th through Sunday, April 9th 2017

*Registration opens Saturday, February 4th at 4PM*

Registration information and Retreat details will be posted on the Princeton Buddhist Meditation Group website on Saturday. [ click for more information ]


 

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Dharma Talk – Interdependence: Embracing Life’s Ups and Downs with Equanimity


Rebecca Li will talk about Interdependence: Embracing Life’s Ups and Downs with Equanimity February 13th at 7pm at Yardley Friends Meeting 65 N Main Street.

As on other Mondays with visiting teachers, the Buddhist Sangha will meet from 7 pm to 9 pm, in the main hall. Please arrive on time out of respect for the teacher and one another. We look forward to seeing you all there to welcome another wonderful Dharma teacher to the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County!

Rebecca was recently published in Lions Roar magazine. Here is an excerpt and the gist of her talk on the 13th.
lionsroar.com/everything-is-interdependent

When 14 Buddhist teachers were asked “What is the most important teaching to proclaim in today’s troubled world?” Here’s what Rebecca Li — a teacher in the Dharma Drum lineage established by Chan master Sheng Yen — had to say.
I think the most important teaching people need to hear today is that everything happening in the present moment is a manifestation of innumerable causes and conditions coming together and constantly changing.

This understanding motivates us to cultivate clear awareness of every emerging moment and to appreciate how each moment is entirely new. When things are going well, we are thankful for how numerous positive conditions have come together, including our own actions and those of many other people, to make it possible. When things are not going so well, we are less likely to fall into despair when we recognize that despite our best efforts, the causes and conditions needed to bring about the desired outcome were not fully present.

About Rebecca Li, PhD

Rebecca, a Dharma heir in the lineage of the Chan Master Sheng Yen, started practicing meditation in 1995. She attended her first intensive retreat with Chan Master Sheng Yen in 1996 and began serving as his interpreter in 1998. She started her teacher’s training with Master Sheng Yen in 1999 and started teaching as Dharma and meditation instructor in 2002. Later on, she trained with John Crook and then Simon Child, both Dharma heirs of Master Sheng Yen, to lead intensive retreats and received full Dharma transmission from Simon Child in 2016. Currently, she teaches meditation and Dharma classes, gives public lectures and leads retreats at Dharma Drum centers, university meditation groups and Dharma practice groups mostly in northeastern United States. Some of her talks and writings can be found at www.rebeccali.org. Rebecca is also a professor of sociology in the Department of Sociology and Anthropology at The College of New Jersey.

Chan started in China in the 6th century CE, and spread south to Vietnam, and to Korea, and reached Japan in the 13th century CE, where it became known as Zen.

The Chan Meditation Center: http://www.chancenter.org/
The Dharma Drum Retreat Center: http://www.dharmadrumretreat.org/
See Rebecca’s talk about why we meditate here:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZrcxVnufyw
Hear her recording from last visit: /2016/08/28/visiting-teacher-september-19th-rebecca-li-phd/

About Our Sangha

The Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County is a community(sangha) that practices Buddhism, provides meditation instruction and community service in a manner consistent with the teachings of the Buddha.

Our sangha is open to everyone who wishes to learn about and practice meditation and/or Buddhism in general.

Monday nights our service consists of selected reading from the service booklet compiled by our members, following by a 20 minute meditation period and a 25 minute optional walking meditation. We close service with selected reading from the service booklet following by tea, snacks and a discussion period in the social hall on various topics (check our newsletter and/or facebook for the latest topics).

The sangha members hold periodical meditation retreats, welcomes special guests teachers, and provides community service.

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January 2017 Setting The Intention: Sila & The Five Precepts

The discussion theme for the month is: “Setting The Intention: Sila & The Five Precepts”

January 2nd:  “To Practice Compassionate Action”, led by Janet with an introduction on “Sila” by Lauren. [Avoiding Harm]

January 9th:  “To Practice Contentment”, led by Joe Beck [Avoiding Stealing]

January 16th:  “To Practice Responsibility in Relationships”, led by David Clark  [Avoiding Sexual Misconduct]

January 23rd:  “To Refrain from Harmful Speech”, led by Dave M. [Right Speech]

January 30th:  “To Care For Ourselves”, led by Lauren [Avoiding Unskillful Action due to Intoxicants]

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Sila and Moving Beyond Guilt

Last night Janet Weathers led a discussion about Sila – ethical conduct, one of the six paramitas (perfections or perfect realizations). It was a rich overview in which she included perspectives from both Thich Nhat Hanah and Joseph Goldstein, two prominent Buddhist leaders and well regarded authors, as well.

One of the things I particularly found comforting was the idea that current practice that includes our present commitment to sila “can ease the mind from excessive worry, regret or guilt about past acts”, (Goldstein, Mindfulness, p. 160). In a handout that Janet shared with those in attendance, it says that differentiating remorse from guilt is necessary as “guilt is an unwholesome factor of mind that simply reinforces the sense of self with negative self-judgment” whereas “remorse…acknowledges the action, understands its unwholesomeness, makes amends when possible, and then moves on. This is an act of self-forgiveness, which is honest in its assessment and wise in its understanding of impermanence and selflessness” (Goldstein, Mindfulness, p. 161).

This is the first time that I can remember hearing a juxtaposition between the concept of guilt and that of remorse. Many of us have probably heard the idea that guilt is simply wasted energy but that never seemed to answer how to account for the feelings associated with it. That is where remorse seems to fit the bill – the opportunity to bring an awareness to a feeling without identifying with it in an unhealthy way. Add to this the ability to always come back to a renewed dedication toward better conduct, and one has the ability to truly move on.

We are human, after all, and even the most “stable” of us cannot go through this life without causing harm, whether directly or indirectly. It is this part of the journey and how we reflect and learn from it, much like any other that allows our loving kindness and compassion to grow.

 

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The Dharma of Trash

Written by Lina Blanchet and published on Lions Roar on December 20, 2016

Blanchet (right) with members of the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County at their annual roadside cleanup. Photo courtesy of the author.…. It’s right that we’re out here. Picking up litter is akin to our dharmic path: seek out the landscape of refuse, and clear it with purpose, much like noticing our own negative mindstates, observing them, and allowing them to pass.

While cleaning the roadside, I begin to imagine each piece of garbage I pick up as the
anger, jealousy, or indifference I experience. Recognizing the pain caused by these mind states, a tenderness of heart develops, and I remind myself that a willingness to sit with this pain is where the path of compassion begins. I see the trash, hold on to it, consider it, and let it go, making way for a greater spaciousness….

Keep reading on Lions Roar

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December 2016 Schedule

Our sangha has social time and discussion 8-9pm following meditation 7pm-8pm  December 2016 looks like this.

December 5: 1st Monday of month Meditation Instruction. John Wentz will join us again to offer a dharma talk and discussion

December 12: Learning about Ajahn Sumedho – the senior Western representative of the Thai Forest Tradition of Theravada Buddhism

Image result for Ajahn Sumedho –December 19: Open Discussion

December 26:  Mudita – sympathetic joy

December 31st New Years Retreat 

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2016 New Years Retreat

For James, with love and thanks beyond measure, from your BSBC Sangha family.

Picture of James receiving a commemorative Bell from BSBC Sangha. Jeannie is next to him

On this last evening of the year, you are invited to join the BSBC community for a rare and lovely opportunity to engage in extended meditation practice with our sangha. The retreat begins at 8 pm and end at 12 am.  Everyone is welcome to come for the whole or part of the evening.

The schedule will include guided meditation instructions, chanting, alternating sitting and walking meditation periods, and a time for sharing poems, readings and reflections.

Visiting Sangha member and long-time practitioner Jeanne Reis is coming down from Boston with BSBC founder James Reis, and has graciously agreed to lead the New Year’s Eve Retreat meditation sessions, as she has for the past couple years. Tea with light refreshments will be offered at 9:30 pm.

If you aren’t able to arrive at 8 pm, you may either time your arrival to coincide with a walking session or enter quietly if the group is sitting. If a sitting is in progress, choose a spot in the back of the hall, then feel free move to a preferred spot during the next walking session. There will be chanting sessions at the beginning and end of the evening; chanting sheets will be provided.

You may bring a favorite poem, reading, and snack to share at teatime, if you wish.

Suggested donation is $10 to cover the cost of reserving the meetinghouse

Please contact us with questions 

Tentative Evening Schedule:

7:00-7:30pm                    Welcome, settle in, quiet sitting
7:30 – 8:00pm                  Walking
8:00 – 8:40 pm                Opening session and Bells Meditation chanting
8:40 – 9:00 pm                Walking session* (instructions available)
9:00 – 9:30 pm                 Quiet Meditation
9:30 – 10:00 pm               Tea: share readings, poems, intentions
10:00 – 10:30 pm             Mindful Movement
10:30 – 11:45 pm               Alternating quiet sitting and walking
11:45 – 12:00 am               Closing and final chant

*You may opt to continue sitting during walking sessions, if you wish
On the first Monday of every month, we offer Meditation instruction for the first 20 minutes of our meeting to anyone who is new to the sangha or just wants to brush up on their meditation technique.  This is a great opportunity to bring in your family and/or friends to check out the sangha and try out meditation.

 

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Annual Report 2016

The Mission of the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County is: To Present, Teach and Practice Buddhism, and to Provide Meditation Instruction and Community Service in a Manner Consistent with the Teaching of the Buddha.

Our Sangha represents a safe space for us to investigate these teachings, and come to our own understanding and acceptance of what is true, letting that understanding guide our process of continuous transformation.

Working together, we support the desire to awaken our deepest understanding of life through meditation practice, dharma discussions, and opportunities for compassionate service.

This has been a year of growth and loss for our Sangha. We welcomed the addition of twenty new members. While three of those twenty have already left Pennsylvania, we hear from them that they have found new sources of practice, and appreciate even more the special environment we have created here that nurtured their growth.

gil-walksWe have lost two people revered in different ways for their contributions. Gil Howard, a past president and longtime board member passed away at the end of September. His wife, Terry Engleman, also served as a board member for several years, and the memorial service that we assisted her in preparing was a time of generous, heartfelt celebration for someone who contributed in many ways to the history and growth of the Sangha. Gil designed the order of service booklet that we use every week, and his spirit is rekindled every time we read from it. The picture shows Gil leading walking meditation on one of Lama Gursam’s retreats a couple years ago.

I am pleased to announce that the board has voted to establish the Gil Howard Retreat Assistance Memorial Award to honor Gil’s contribution to the development and leadership of the BSBC over the course of many years. The assistance will be awarded annually by the Board in the amount of up to $300 to a BSBC member who requests help in covering the cost of a retreat with a recognized Buddhist teacher.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThe Ven. Bhikshuni Karma Trime Lhamo, known to us simply as Ani Trime, died on October 31, Halloween, a coincidence she would have made a hearty joke about given her warm sense of humor. A Tibetan Buddhist nun for 40 years, she founded and led the Princeton Buddhist Meditation Group, which formed a sort of beach head for Buddhist study and practice in the Mercer-Bucks area. Many BSBC members sat and learned from Ani Trime over the years, and she was an invited guest teacher several times. This photo is of Ani Trime leading a day of mindfulness for us in 2011, with help from her student and friend, Beverly Sanford.

Three standing committees were created by the BSBC board as part of the bylaws revision last year, and they have become fully functioning this year. The activities of our members and friends are not confined by the committees, but organized and stimulated by them.

Communications Committee: (Co-chairs: Susan Harrison, Eugene Pevzner & Joe Beck). The committee continued to increase the BSBC’s visibility on digital platforms. Contributions by several members and friends appeared regularly on our website and Facebook page, and a new Twitter account was established. Special events received special treatment through traditional means as well, through advertising in local news outlets, and the creation and posting of flyers. The results of these efforts are visible, as it has become common for two or three newcomers to appear on Monday nights, many having learned of us through social media. Susan Harrison has structured and been the primary author of the BSBC weekly e-newsletter, our primary communications vehicle to members, for many years, and as she steps down from this role to more fully enjoy retirement life with her husband, she has left a model that the committee leadership will continue to use into the future.

Program Committee: (Co-chairs Janet Weathers & Edna Telep, assisted by Dave Mermelstein and myself). We have studied the Buddha’s teachings and related practices and traditions through visiting teachers, the book group hosted by board member Edna Telep, and weekly discussions. We sought to bring greater coherence to our weekly discussions of the dharma by focusing on a specific theme each month. The monthly themes included: Natural Awareness and Training the Mind, Gratitude and Mindful Living, Aspects of Mindfulness, The Meaning of Taking Refuge, Lojong (Tibetan 7-Point Mind Training), Bringing the Dharma into Everyday Life, Gaining Freedom through Buddhist Teachings and Practice, and Influential Buddhist Teachers. We also completed our exploration of Shantideva’s poem “A Guide to the Bodhisattva’s Way of Life” with the able assistance of Lama Gursam’s senior student, John Wenz, who comes six times a year to lead our discussions. In addition to the Program Committee members, Sangha members David Clark and Joe Beck ably assisted in leading discussions.

Once again we held a New Year’s Eve meditation event led by Jeanne Reis, wife of the BSBC founder James Reis, who graced us with her leadership and teaching again in June for a one day retreat.  We were blessed to have three visits this year in February, July, and gursam-retreat-2016November from our Tibetan teacher, and special friend, Yoga Acharya Lama Gursam, which included both dharma talks and one-day retreats. We deepened our relationship with the Princeton Buddhist Meditation Group. Several Sangha members attended a five-day retreat organized by the Princeton group and led by their well-known teacher in the Tibetan tradition, Anam Thubten, the spiritual director of the Dharmata Foundation.

Other special events included a return visit by John Orr who teaches in the Theravadan tradition for a weekend retreat in May, and new teachers who presented dharma talks and guided meditation at our Monday night services: Andre Doshin Halaw head of the Original Mind Zen Sangha in Princeton, and Dr. Rebecca Li, a teacher in the Chan tradition who is associated with the Dharma Drum Retreat Center in upstate New York.

Our meditation period was strengthened by new members leading the service, and energized by additional Pali chants led by vice-president, Dave Mermelstein, and David Clark, who were happy to share their hearty voices and love of chanting brought back from their participation in retreats at the Insight Meditation Society.

Outreach and Service Committee: (Co-chairs David Clark & Rika Barrett, assisted by Marilynn Picciotti and K.C. Focht). We have continued our outreach and service activities through contributions to the Bucks County Emergency Homeless Shelter, and through an initiative suggested by board member Marilynn Picciotti this year we gifted 303 pairs of socks, more than 200 pairs of gloves, and several dozen hats to the shelter. Marilynn also channeled special direct assistance to homeless persons on the street in nearby communities.

The BSBC joined with 21 other local congregations when the Family Promise program opened its doors to help homeless and low-income families in lower Bucks County to achieve sustainable independence. We serve as a support group to this program, and David Clark and K.C. Focht provided the leadership in establishing a positive, responsive working relationship with our assigned host congregation, the Lutheran Church of God’s Love in Newtown. They also organized our on-site support activities when families stay for a week at the church. Additional participating BSBC members and friends were: Edna Telep, Diana Collinelli, Yvonne Matienko, Vanessa Persicketti, Rachel Anne Lawerence, Janet Weathers, and myself.

kc-ep-outreach We continued our decade long tradition of participating in Pennsylvania’s road clean-up program, collecting trash along our designated highway in Levittown, in the fall and spring, organized by Rika Barrett. The committee also made others aware of our presence in the community by having tables at two community events, the annual rika-outreachYardley Friends arts and crafts market and at the Peace Fair sponsored by the Buckingham Friends Meeting. David Clark, Rika Barrett, K.C. Focht, and Eugene Pevzner all represented us at the events.

We also continued to bring awareness of Buddhist teachings through four invited columns in the Bucks County Courier Times, From a Faith Perspective, written by board member and Treasurer, Edna Telep, and myself.

Louise Wile, our librarian, has updated our lending library that provides many Buddhist books, periodicals, DVDs, tapes, and audio books. An initiative led by Dave Mermelstein has begun to expand the library by purchasing multiple copies of key books on Buddhism recommended by board members.

Financially, we ended the year with a balance of approximately $4,464 as seen in Figure 1.  These expenses included $4,950 for our rent for the year based on $90 per Monday evening and special events at the Yardley and Makefield Friends Meeting Houses. Thanks to our treasurer, Edna Telep, for handling the expenses and records with both caution and a spirit of generosity.

Figure 1 – BSBC FY 2016 Financial Statement

BSBC FISCAL YEAR 2016 (Nov 1 to Oct 31)

FINANCIAL REPORT OF INCOME / EXPENSES

Balance from FY 2015                     $ 4,607
Income                     $ 7,379
Expenses Rent:           $ 4,950

Retreats:           869

Insurance          250

Donations         250

Purchases          388

Other                 245  

TOTAL       $ 7,522

Approximate Balance in Account (pending outstanding deposits & expenses)                     $ 4,464

We look to the coming year to continue the growth of our Sangha, welcoming teachers to deepen our understanding of Buddhist teachings while expanding practice and service opportunities for our members and friends. All are truly welcome.

I am grateful for the opportunity to be of service to the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County, and greatly appreciate the ready and willing assistance from so many who have made this past year so valuable as we travel this path together.

— Phil Brown, President  View a ms word version of the report here

Download 2016 Annual Report

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Andre Taesan Halaw visits November 28th

We are happy to announce Zen teacher Andre Taesan Halaw’s third visit to the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County on Monday, November 28th.

The Audio of the dharma talk is now available below

Andre Taesan Halaw 11.28 part 1     

Andre Taesan Halaw 11.28 part 2     

Andre is a Zen monk and teacher in the Five Mountain Zen Order. He teaches high school English, is married, and has two young children. In July of 2016, Andre received Dharma Transmission from his teacher, Zen Master Wonji Dharma.

You can visit Andre at his Zen blog Original Mind or on Twitter. He has several books available on Amazon.  If you have any questions, please feel free to contact him at http://www.originalmindzen.com/contact-us.html

Andre’s teaching in Yardley that night will focus on the questions below, and he will also lead us in a guided meditation. We will meet that night at our regular time, from 7 to 9 PM. We look forward to seeing everyone then for a lively teaching and a Q&A session with Andre.

“We sit with the intention to be mindful of the present moment.
We rise from our cushions with the intention to be mindful in daily life.
While sitting, when we lose focus, we use the breath to return to the present moment.
In daily life, there are so many stumbling blocks; what can we use to remember to be mindful?
How can being mindful of the present moment help us to have equanimity within the turbulent waves of daily life?”

Check out the Original Mind Zen Sangha is an American Zen Buddhist community he is part of – http://www.originalmindzen.com/ 

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